Most people get worse as they get successful, many more get worse as they age. In fact, Rockefeller began tithing his money with his first job and gave more of it away as he became successful. He grew more open-minded the older he became, more generous, more pious, more dedicated to making a difference.
I was 20 years old. Moses built just about every other major modern construction project in New York City. Robert Moses was an asshole. He may have had more brain, more drive, more strategy than other men, but he did not have more compassion. And ultimately power turned him into something monstrous. I almost feel like I have lost something not having known this of him my whole life. All these myths belies his strategic acumen, his mastery of terrain and his deep understanding of statesmanship and politics.
There is much to learn from the man and this biographer—who himself was a great strategist and mind. Drew recommended this book to me, it is spectacular. Rule over yourself. But those beautiful lines are really the same direct advice and timeless, perspective-changing observations as the others. He teaches how to implement your radical agenda without using radical tactics, how to disarm with words and media as opposed to arms and Utopian rhetoric.
He shunned wealth, fame, and power all to accomplish what he felt needed to be accomplished. Coram captures his essence in a way that no other author has touched. In terms of classics, The History of the Peloponnesian War Amazon is an obligation for every student of history. For a whole list of books on the US Civil War, start here. But then you realize that truth is better than ignorance, and you emerge seeing the world as it truly is for the first time. If you want to get into evolutionary psychology—which you totally should—this is a good starting point because it covers all the basics.
Essentially, it discusses how men and women have benefited evolutionarily through different behaviors and strengths so it would only make sense that they would have developed into two very different entities. You need to read ALL of them. Just holy shit. Even if it was just the main narrative—the chase to kill a man-eating Tiger in Siberia in post-communist Russia—it would be worth reading, but it is so much more than that. The story is nuts: a tiger starts killing people in Russia and a team is sent to kill it Russia is so fucked up, they already have a team for this.
His other book The Golden Spruce Amazon is also great. And then it gets better from there. I mean, did you know he is credited with being the first to chart and navigate a totally unknown river as long as the Nile? And that he did that after he was President, just for fun?
Not only is there a bunch of great history and drama here, it shows a human side of Roosevelt I had not understood before. Sir Ernest Shackleton makes his daring attempt to cross Antarctic continent but his crew and boat are trapped in the ice flows. What follows are days of harrowing survival, first from the elements, then from hunger, then from the sea as he makes a daring attempt in a small lifeboat to reach land miles away, then again as he struggles over land and mountains to bring relief to his men.
And when he finally arrives with it, Shackleton simply boards them on the boat and returns home as if nothing had happened. He was an immensely brave man in the midst of terrible adversity and we see this so clearly in a book based on the remarkable diaries of his men. He never quit, never seemed to despair. It is like The Tiger -good.
A diver whose life principles we can all learn from and a ship captain find the wreck of an unknown German U-Boat in …on the coast of New Jersey. This book is narrative nonfiction writing at its finest. Please read. The Aeneid was far and away the most quotable, readable and memorable of all of them. Don't go near the online bookies — unless it's research. Chances are the words that come into your head will do fine, eg "horse", "ran", "said".
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I was working on a novel about a band called the Partitions. Then I decided to call them the Commitments. If it still doesn't work, throw it away. It's a nice feeling, and you don't want to be cluttered with the corpses of poems and stories which have everything in them except the life they need. That stuff is for agents and editors to fret over — or not. Conversation with my American publisher. Me: "I'm writing a book so boring, of such limited commercial appeal, that if you publish it, it will probably cost you your job. In the early s I went to live in Paris.
Since then I've developed an aversion to writing in public. I now think it should be done only in private, like any other lavatorial activity. The biggest regret of my writing life is that I have never kept a journal or a diary. If it's a choice between writing a book and doing nothing I will always choose the latter. It's only if I have an idea for two books that I choose one rather than the other. Make a habit of putting your observations into words and gradually this will become instinct.
This is the most important rule of all and, naturally, I don't follow it. If something is proving too difficult, give up and do something else. You've got to stick at it. Remember that all description is an opinion about the world. Find a place to stand. Fiction is made of words on a page; reality is made of something else. It doesn't matter how "real" your story is, or how "made up": what matters is its necessity. Why not? The thing that annoys this weeks-to-live self is the thing that is wrong with the book. So change it.
Stop arguing with yourself. Change it. And no one had to die. It just does. It may not improve your temper, but it fixes something else. It makes you more free. Substituting "then" is the lazy or tone-deaf writer's non-solution to the problem of too many "ands" on the page.
I still blush when I come across it. Read it aloud to yourself. If it doesn't spin a bit of magic, it's missing something. Cut until you can cut no more. What is left often springs into life. Don't let anything else interfere. Not everything needs to be explained. If you really know something, and breathe life into it, they'll know it too. Read it pretending you've never read it before.
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Show it to friends whose opinion you respect and who like the kind of thing that this is. Remember that, sooner or later, before it ever reaches perfection, you will have to let it go and move on and start to write the next thing. Perfection is like chasing the horizon. Keep moving. That may be a rule for life as well as for writing. But it's definitely true for writing. I'm sure you'll love Neil and Kari. But it's he who has been my savior. When my world felt damned he brought me back, gave me hope, made me burn, made me feel so beautifully, insanely I was sent a copy of this book by the author in exchange for a review.
And I was really hoping to find an indie author I could support. I loved the cover, and I wanted to like what was underneath it, too. I really did.
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The premise was fresh in that what had happened to the heroine wasn't something I'd read before, but There's a huge lack of show vs. I think with a good editor or a few good editors to tighten up areas that need work, I would probably feel much differently and might be willing to give this another chance. In it's current form, though, it just didn't work for me. View 2 comments. See more reviews on my blog! I have to say that I was really surprised by this book.
I have read a few books where a girl was scorned by a guy. This one however got my attention with the prologue. It is quite different from all of them that I have read! I liked Kari's character. She is a snarky girl who works in a tattoo parlor. Even though her Mother does not approve. But, she loves it. If I have learn See more reviews on my blog! If I have learned anything in this world its that if you find a job you love then by God keep doing it! Anyway, it is because of this job that she has some extra cash considering some of it is going to the A-hole Eddie.
She also meets Neil here. I really like Neil. He is super yummy! He always is telling Kari that she saved him but, I think he is the one who did the saving. I liked how the story progressed, I had a hard time putting it down. When Kari's secret comes out will it ruin things with Neil? Will she ever be able to have a healthy sexual relationship after her past?
Is her life on the road to being destroyed? I would have to say that Agnas and Nalini are amazing. Agnas would be awesome to have as a mother. She is such a caring person. Nalini is a great friend. Blunt but, we all need that every once and a while. I found her extremely funny and I loved her relationship with her boyfriend. He was also great. I really enjoyed Neil.
The amazing man that rescues Kari on a white horse. He has a few secrets of his own that come out with time. I love that he lets Kari give him a tattoo. It's a very intimate thing. At least it felt like that to me. He also rides a motorcycle which is super sexy. Their romantic scenes are very hot. Like super spicy and I loved them. I didn't really know what to expect given the cover of the book. But, I loved it! I really enjoyed this book and am glad I go the chance to review it. I would recommend it!! I have no idea if there will be another book in the series but, I was happy with the ending!
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Kari has a secret that's been eating at her since the day the encounter occurred. She is trying to move on and live her life as best she can - going to college, getting a job - but she's still haunted by that moment and she doesn't know how much more she can take. Then she meets Neil, a handsome young man that pushes all her buttons and sets her body on fire. Although she tries to keep her distance and her attraction from Neil, the guy is as persistent as he is gorgeous and little by little she Kari has a secret that's been eating at her since the day the encounter occurred.
Although she tries to keep her distance and her attraction from Neil, the guy is as persistent as he is gorgeous and little by little she finds herself opening up and falling for him. Only to have her past rear its ugly head and threaten to undo all she has worked so hard to achieve. Once in a while you get a story that not only entertains you and draws you in, but where the characters get to you and you become emotionally invested in their well being and happiness.
All My Life is that kind of story. From the very beginning of the story I was hooked. I enjoyed Kari's voice and the character she portrayed. She was young, prone to make mistakes, but she was also funny and independent with a strong will. I admired that about her and as the story progressed I could see how she developed into a matured, young woman.
Of course, I loved Neil. He was caring, handsome and sexy as hell with that grin of his. But what I truly admired about him was his loyalty to Kari and his mother. I would have loved to read his side of the story, but Rucy Ban did a great job of presenting him to me in a way that let me see bits and pieces of himself so that I could really see him and believe that he was the right man for Kari. Rucy Ban's writing was packed full of emotions, flirtatious banter and insightful dialog. All these elements combined with a great plot and interesting secondary characters made All My Life a great read for me.
Oh and that cover? I received this title from the author in exchange of my honest opinion. After a tragic first love encounter, Kari has sworn off men. When the gorgeous Neil Mars crashes into her life she is awestruck. The more she gets to know him the more she starts to love him. But if Neil ever discovers Kari secret, will she lose him forever? Rucy Ban creates a group of witty, quirky, and wonderfully loyal characters. Neil is truly prince charming, the perfect man who comes to her rescue.
This is a novella length story, I would have loved to have the story longer with more details which would have removed the few gaps in the storyline. Ultimately, I found All My Life a gritty yet fun, enjoyable read with wounded characters that found the most beautiful love.
Available now on Amazon. View 1 comment. I loved Neil and Kari. Neil is right up there with Merrick n Kellan as my fav book BF!!! Amazing debut. When I read the blurb i was like this is right up my alley. I'm so glad i listened to my inner slut ; hehhee. I might just read this one again. Yeah, that was my first reaction after reading this book. Actually, to speak the truth, I should say that most of it wasn't what I was expecting. We all get these preconceived notions that are built on various pre-reading clues we get from things like the title, the genre, the blurb, the cover, etc.
I make mention of this because I had certain ideas going into the story that allowed the story to really take me by surprise. Not in a million years did I expect some Wasn't.
Not in a million years did I expect some of the plot twists in the story starting off with what happened to the heroine after she trusts the wrong person and going from there. The story opens with this bright-eyed girl who is in high school with the world at her feet. She lives with her mom with whom she has a good relationship, she does well in school, she has good friends and now she has a cool guy who just graduated interested in her and her mom even likes him.
Life is a dream! But in one big, naive mistake, life becomes a nightmare. It has been two years and Kari is a whole different person in someways from the girl who let a sleazy guy dupe her and continue to threaten her through blackmail. She hides this dark secret from everyone including her mom. Her break comes from an unexpected direction when she takes a job in the tattoo parlor across the street from her home. There she is mentored by the tattoo artist and becomes friends with the body piercing gal, Nalini.
Nalini is outspoken and brash, but she's solid friend material. One day, into the parlor walks the guy of her dreams, Neil Mars I know, what a name! Well, he's the man of her dreams if she wasn't terrified of letting a guy near her ever again. Neil is just as into her and doesn't even let her freakish behavior that she exhibits when she is near him put him off. They both have hidden pain and they both have a way of brightening a bad day for each other and trusting in each other.
Things move forward slowly with them. The blackmailer troubles are still there though. Kari must decide if she can trust Neil with everything and trust in him to still want her when he knows. Then for every point that is typical, there is an atypical plot piece tossed in to keep it fresh and interesting. This is a character-driven story so it plods along rather slowly and it is told first person so I spent a lot of time in Kari's head listening to her internal monologue.
There were a few times that I found it tedious and angsty, but more often than not, she kept my full interest as a narrator of her story. The descriptive language allowed for me to feel things right along with Kari. Even though Neil was a bit more of an enigma since I only saw him through the grid of Kari's thoughts, I couldn't help but absolutely adore him. Kari was skittish and rude at times, but he just hung with her like a champ. His hormones were raging not that hers weren't- being with Neil was all she thought about much of the time , but he held back and waited for her.
Considering what happened to her, that was the best proof that he could be trusted and that he cared for her that he could have given. There were a few things that niggled me about the story. Now I might be in error, but I'm pretty sure that Kari is seventeen and Neil is twenty-six. She's in college, but she's underage for this relationship.
As I pointed out earlier, he took good care of her and her mom is aware of their relationship and approves, but there is a part of me that wished her character had been a couple years older. The relationship would seem more credible nine years' difference at that time of life is a huge gap and plus I think I'd be more comfortable about it. I also felt that things rushed in the end and then leaped to the epilogue which was cute and full of promise leaving the future wide open to the imagination. In the end, I really enjoyed this story and was sorry to see it end. Those who enjoy the New Adult Contemporary Romance niche should most definitely give this one a try.
This review my be a little all over the place, because I have a lot of thoughts about this book. I hope the author takes it has constructive criticism because I do think there was potential. First, kudos to the author for not shying away from some hard topics. She touched on some things that I had never read about in a novel before, and I applaud her for that. Next, I thought Neil and Kari's relationship was cute. There re 2. There relationship was believable for the most part.
I can understand why Neil was so taken with Kari when they meet. Once we find out who he is, I think it must have been nice to meet someone who like him not his relationship. However, I thought there age difference was a little hard to swallow. She is 17, and he is Later in life 6 years is not a huge difference, but when one person is 17, it's a ton.
Also, I thought their relationship moved to quickly, especially considering what happened the last time Kari moved to quickly with a boy. This brings me to my next point. The timeline in this book was weird. There would be times when I thought days or weeks had to have passed because of how much happened, but then Kari would say something about it happening early the same day or the day before.
The timeline could have been stretched without adding any more events and the story line would have become much more believable. Also, I spent the whole book under the impression that they were in a city in the Midwest. I know they talked about riding the subway, but they also talked about Chicago, and when Neil was talking about it, it was implied at least to me that it was only a few hours away. Add to that the fact that Kari's mom appeared to be a die-hard Bears fan and voila - Midwest. I was confused by that to say the least.
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I don't care that it was 1st person, the million exclamation points are not necessary. The reader should add their own emotion to the lines as they are reading. It is not necessary to do it for them. On the same note, this book read like an adult trying too hard to sound like a teenager. It read like the author learned how teens talk from watching teen dramas on TV. Not the most realistic. I thought the plot wrapped up way to neatly and to quickly.
All of a sudden, there was a confrontation and it was over. Plus, when Kari finally went to the police. They could have just gotten a search warrant for Eddie's computer, found the file then arrested him for statutory rape and creation of child pornography with the intent to distribute. She was 16 at the time. It would have upheld. Of course, this didn't happened because it didn't go along with the author's plans for the story line, but I think it's what should have happened.
And can I just say that the cover has nothing to do with the book? Anyway, like I said, I liked the premise, and I liked the characters, but execution needed some serious work. I think sending this book to a professional editor would have taken care of a lot of these issues. They are things that you wouldn't change just doing a reread on your own. Source: Received an ecopy in exchange for an honest review. No compensations were given to alter the rating.
All opinions are my own. This is an enjoyable and truly wonderful read. I wish all books I read would be this great and I could give highest ratings left and right.
I was pleasantly surprised to find it so interesting and catchy, as it's rare for me to read a book in a single sitting one that isn't a short story. I might add that it's 8a. Review: I feel like I haven't read anyt Source: Received an ecopy in exchange for an honest review. This book practically blew my mind with every chapter. When I was through I had this moment of sadness because I had read it in a single sitting, devouring it in a few hours, and I wished I had more pages to read and bask in the feelings this book oozed out with each one.
Really, the summary doesn't stand close to the true story this book reveals, it's a lot more than it sounds like. Kari, while insecure about anyone finding out her secret which you will find as original , she's also strong and determined, she's a definite realist maybe pessmist and there's nothing that would deter her from keeping her secret and finally being free from the obligations to Eddie. As it happens, she meets Neil, exactly the type of guy she should avoid. But how can you keep cool when he's so considerete and insistant on getting to know Kari, and so absolutely charming?
And she is a natural, guys! I wish I could do it myself If I had an actual copy of this book, I would probably rub my face against the cover and hug it real thight.
All My Life (A First Things Series Book 1) (English Edition) por Rucy Ban
It had me crying, laughing, stressing and having a mental mind blow, I almost got a heart attack when Neil and Kari kissed! I loved Kari's relationship with Neil, Nalini, Josiah and Agnas, they were like a huge family- going through bad times together, laughing at silly jokes and keeping together when shit got real. Their conversations were fun to read , they had me desperately wanting this book to never end, so I could hang out with them every fucking day.
I really enjoyed Rucy Ban's writing, she wrote such a profoundly touching and real love story, and delivered it in as little as pages. The plot twists and its non-predictability had me on the edge, the characters were poignant and fun, everything was remarkable and I wouldn't change a thing. This book is a gem and Rucy ahould be proud of it, I hope she writes more of these kind of books.
All My Life is a truly refreshing and different read from the big mass of NA books produced monthly. It's a poignant and profoundly fantastic story of a girl who fights back her demons and finds love in a tattoo parlor. I'm definitely going to keep an eye on Rucy Ban, I believe she has a lot in store for us. If you, my dear reader, are tired of predictable love stories and enjoy NA Contemporary romances, this book is a must read for you.
You won't regret it. Let me start off with telling you I just Loved this story. It was original and had some turns that I did NOT see coming. It was truly a very attention grabbing book and I am so honored to have gotten the chance to read it and share how much I adored it with you. It deserves the High Ratings that it gets.
This story follows a young woman who has a secret. A secret that horrible and just infuriates and breaks your heart all at once. But she is surviving. She is pushing day to day counting the time Let me start off with telling you I just Loved this story. She is pushing day to day counting the time till her nightmare is over. This is where we meet Kari. She is enduring this and trying to find a way to live her life to the fullest she can.
Enter Neil. Kari may seem like the girl that needs to be saved, but give her a chance. She will surprise the heck out of you. Neil keeps popping up in her life, and despite how she wants to feel, Kari is extremely attracted to him. I mean really, as long as it takes her to realize it I am begging for him to turn my way! Can we say Perfect?